Parents who are going through a divorce will often have to determine how to make the child’s schedule work even though they’re having to move between homes. Having consistency can help the child to feel more secure while they adjust to the new way of life.
Some parents think that the parenting time schedule is all they need to focus on; however, thinking beyond that can help the children to thrive. Considering these tips may be beneficial as you work through the scheduling with your ex.
Consider the child’s age
Younger children typically need a more consistent schedule than older children. If your child is younger, give daily consistency with things like mealtimes and bedtime. They also tend to do best if they don’t go too long between visits with each parent.
As children get older, they may be able to adjust to changes in the daily schedule from one home to another. They may have more activities that require them to be a bit more flexible with their schedules.
Accept firm schedules
Even if you have a firm parenting time schedule, you may have to remain flexible about the schedule for extracurricular and school activities. Some parents may also have to consider other schedules, like those for religious or civic activities. It’s possible that those might occur during each parent’s parenting time, but both parents should commit to making them as easy as possible for the children.
Keeping the schedule as consistent as possible for the children can be challenging, but it’s often easier if the terms are included in the parenting plan. This document helps to ensure that both parents know their duties and are on the same page.