Parenting plans contain a variety of terms that allow both parents to have a clear understanding of parental responsibilities and other points related to raising their children. One area that should be carefully considered is how holidays and school breaks will be handled.
The winter holidays and school breaks are just around the corner, so now is the time for parents to ensure everything is set in the child’s best interests for that time period. This should start with a review of the parenting plan to determine when the child will be with each parent so the planning can start.
Plan for childcare
If your children are younger, it may be necessary to find childcare for the times when school isn’t in session. Babysitters and daycares often have schedules that fill up quickly around the holiday season. Setting these plans now can help you to avoid a last minute rush or providers that aren’t ideal for your child.
Schedule celebrations
It’s also a good idea to start to schedule celebrations and events for the holiday season now. If there are certain events that you and your child like attending together, you should check the dates now to find out if they happen during your parenting time.
Focus on the child’s needs
Even the best-laid schedules sometimes need to change. During the holiday season, there might be travel plans to consider or family events that pop up. If possible, you and your ex should try to remain flexible and keep communication open during the season. This could mean switching parenting time days if family comes in from out of town.
Keeping the focus on what’s best for the child is always beneficial. If you and your ex have disputes about the holiday season, now is the time to address them. Seeking assistance from someone familiar with these matters may help.